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15 Things I Wish I Knew About Graduate School When I Was Younger

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 Hi! 👋 When I was halfway through undergraduate college, I decided I wanted to study a Ph.D. in human anatomy. This field has always been my passion, and it was a blessing 😇 that I knew exactly what I wanted to do with my professional life. I acknowledge that not everybody at this stage has decided a specific career, and sometimes people choose not to continue college🙅🚫. And that is ok too. 👍

👀Little did I know all the implications that grad school 😵would incur. Grad school was the hardest thing I've ever done in my professional life😓. Still, everybody sells it as this great place 👌where you would focus on that topic that you chose to study, and make a good life 💅with this degree👽. And in my case, I decided to not go for a master's degree, but to jump straight into a doctorate degree 😲 from my bachelors. 

However, no one tells you all the backstage information 💬 about the do's 👍and don't 👎that helps you to survive, and graduate with a master's or doctorate. I don't mean to scare you👻 if you're looking forward to going to grad school, but there are things you should know.💭

So, here are 15 tip & lessons about grad school that I learned the hard way:

1. You need to study every single day, not just the day before the test. This is essential if you wish to get good grades to pass. Usually, in grad school there are minimum grades to move forward. Generally, that is 75 to 80% passing grades with two opportunities to pass the class or fail and be dismissed from the university. And tests at this level are extremely difficult in comparison to high school or undergraduate college. Don't take this lightly.

2. Have a calendar to organize your day, hour by hour. If you have several classes, a job, and a family, it is vital to schedule your day to the most minimal task (including your naps, and meal breaks). Use those free calendar apps that can send you notifications throughout the day so that you don't forget what's next. Set alarms to guide yourself to the next task.

3. Ask questions about complex items to your professors to show your interest, and be respectful. During class, sit in front of the room to stay alert throughout the entire lecture. Listen first, then copy your notes. If the professor offers the power points before the class, make sure to print those or have them in a notepad so that you can make notes in there. Highlight the points that your professor keeps repeating or stresses out. These are usually vital for the test. 

4. Choose your mentor wisely by rotating through several labs before deciding. Ask around about the mentor's attitude. Remember that you will spend the next 5 to 7 years with this mentor to complete your thesis, and you need to feel comfortable with him/her. Make sure your mentor has the following characteristics; is compassionate, reasonable, interested in helping and teaching you, gives you attention when needed, encourages you to learn new skills, and is respectful

5. Talk to your mentor about your itinerary, and your specific roles in the laboratory. This itinerary will help you to complete tasks in the lab while also having a life outside school (for example, 9 am through 7 pm). Then, discussing these roles will establish your limits as a student (remember that you are not the lab technician, nor a slave). 

6. Prepare your thesis proposal as soon as possible (within 2 years after starting school) and establish your aims (stick to them). It is ideal to spend some time in this new lab you selected to learn about the lab's aims, and techniques. Once this happens, then talk to your mentor to draft your aims. Typically, at the doctorate level is three major aims that will define your thesis. Keep in mind that this will depend on your experiment results because this will determine if you can continue or change aims. But having aims can save you from doing extra work for others and for spending another 3+ years there. 

7. Ask for help if you need tutoring/ ask for professional help if you feel frustrated, or sad, or anything else. Schools typically provide this service for students. There is no shame in asking for help when you need it. Nobody is born with extraterrestrial powers. 

8. Make friends with your peers, lab technicians, and students from other departments because they are your support in times of need. And hopefully, these will be friends for life. 

9. Participate in group organizations, associations, student boards, etc., to get new skills (such as management & oral presentation skills), and make new connections. 

10. Apply for travel awards and scholarships to improve your skillset for your CV. Even if you get rejection letters, you will get better with time and at some point, you could receive this award which will look great on your resume. Ask other recipients how they managed to get these awards. Learn to write grants. That is a major skill.

11. Learn new techniques by volunteering in other labs, that can be helpful for your next step (like a post-doc). These skills could be also transferable to the scientific industry, which is another job opportunity option to consider. 

12. Become a teaching assistant (TA), and learn teaching skills to become a future professor. Teaching is a form of art and learning how to teach is vital nowadays. Your future students will be grateful if you apply active learning techniques.

13. Offer to mentor undergraduate students and learn to manage people. You learn by teaching others, and mentoring undergraduate students can be beneficial for them as well as for yourself. 

14. Nobody likes smarty pants, so don't be one. There is nothing wrong with being smart and a nerd. But sometimes, you see graduate students competing against other students as if they were intellectually superior. In reality, they look bad, and people will tend to stay away from them. Take the high road and be humble. Mind your own business. 

15. Let's dive back one more time to 'respect your professors'; be mindful that they are the ones who handle your grades. So be respectful, and responsible, like emailing them to keep the communication gates open, doing your homework on time, and study hard. Also, professors dislike whiners. So, instead of writing an email complaining, or talking to your professor whining about your issues, ask them how can you do better? What should you focus on? What is the best study approach? What advice they could give you to succeed in their class? Do not challenge them, or compare them to others. This is disrespectful. This behavior could make the difference between the professor giving you that 1 bonus point to have a B instead of a C, or thinking that you don't deserve it. Remember that they are human, and they have feelings too. 

I hope these tips help you succeed in grad school. Good luck! ✌

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¡Hola! 👋 Cuando estaba a la mitad de la universidad, decidí que quería estudiar un doctorado en anatomía humana. Este campo siempre ha sido mi pasión, y fue una bendición 😇 saber exactamente lo que quería hacer con mi vida profesional. Reconozco que no todo el mundo en esta etapa ha decidido una carrera específica y, a veces, la gente elige no continuar la universidad. Y eso también está bien. 👍

👀Poco sabía yo todas las implicaciones que tendría la escuela de posgrado. La escuela de posgrado fue lo más difícil que he hecho en mi vida profesional 😓. Aún así, todo el mundo lo vende como este gran lugar, donde te enfocarías en el tema que elegiste estudiar y harías una buena vida con este título. Y en mi caso, decidí no hacer una maestría, sino saltar directamente a un doctorado 😲 de mi licenciatura. 

Sin embargo, nadie te brinda toda la información entre bastidores (sobre lo que debes y no debes hacer) que te ayuda a sobrevivir y a graduarte con una maestría o un doctorado. No quiero asustarte si estás deseando ir a la escuela de posgrado, pero hay cosas que debes saber.💭

Entonces, aquí hay 15 consejos y lecciones sobre la escuela de posgrado que aprendí de la manera más difícil:

1. Debe estudiar todos los días, no solo el día anterior al examen. Esto es esencial si desea obtener buenas calificaciones para aprobar. Por lo general, en la escuela de posgrado hay calificaciones mínimas para avanzar. Generalmente, es de 75 a 80% de calificaciones aprobatorias con dos oportunidades para aprobar la clase o reprobar y ser expulsado de la universidad. Y las pruebas en este nivel son extremadamente difíciles en comparación con la escuela secundaria o la universidad. No te lo tomes a la ligera.

2. Tenga un calendario para organizar su día, hora a hora. Si tiene varias clases, un trabajo y una familia, es vital programar su día para la tarea más mínima (incluidas las siestas y los descansos para comer). Use esas aplicaciones de calendario gratuitas que pueden enviarle notificaciones a lo largo del día para que no olvide lo que sigue. Configure alarmas para guiarse a sí mismo a la siguiente tarea.

3. Haga preguntas sobre temas complejos a sus profesores para mostrar su interés y sea respetuoso. Durante la clase, siéntese al frente para mantenerse alerta durante toda la conferencia. Escuche primero, luego copie sus notas. Si el profesor ofrece los powerpoints antes de la clase, asegúrese de imprimirlos o tenerlos a la mano para que pueda tomar notas allí. Resalta los puntos que tu profesor sigue repitiendo o enfatiza. Suelen ser vitales para la prueba. 

4. Elija sabiamente a su mentor rotando por varios laboratorios antes de tomar una decisión. Pregunte sobre la actitud del mentor. Recuerde que pasará los próximos 5 a 7 años con este mentor para completar su tesis y debe sentirse cómodo con él / ella. Asegúrese de que su mentor tenga las siguientes características; es compasivo, razonable, interesado en ayudarle y enseñarle, le presta atención cuando lo necesita, lo anima a aprender nuevas habilidades y es respetuoso

5. Habla con tu mentor sobre tu itinerario y tus roles específicos en el laboratorio. Este itinerario lo ayudará a completar las tareas en el laboratorio mientras también tiene una vida fuera de la escuela (por ejemplo, de 9 am a 7 pm). Entonces, discutir estos roles establecerá tus límites como estudiante (recuerda que no eres el técnico de laboratorio, ni un esclavo). 

6. Prepare su propuesta de tesis lo antes posible (dentro de los 2 años posteriores al inicio de la escuela) y establezca sus objetivos. Es ideal pasar un tiempo en este nuevo laboratorio que seleccionó para conocer los objetivos y las técnicas del laboratorio. Una vez que esto suceda, habla con tu mentor para redactar tus objetivos. Normalmente, a nivel de doctorado hay tres objetivos principales que definirán tu tesis. Tenga en cuenta que esto dependerá de los resultados de su experimento porque esto determinará si puede continuar o cambiar los objetivos. Pero tener objetivos puede evitar que tengas que hacer un trabajo extra para los demás y pasar más de 3 años allí. 

7. Pida ayuda si necesita tutoría / pida ayuda profesional si se siente frustrado, triste o cualquier otra cosa. Las escuelas suelen ofrecer este servicio a los estudiantes. No hay que avergonzarse de pedir ayuda cuando la necesita. Nadie nace con poderes extraterrestres. 

8. Hazte amigo de tus compañeros, técnicos de laboratorio y estudiantes de otros departamentos porque son tu apoyo en momentos de necesidad. Y con suerte, estos serán amigos de por vida. 

9. Participar en organizaciones grupales, asociaciones, juntas de estudiantes, etc., para adquirir nuevas habilidades (como habilidades de gestión y presentación oral) y hacer nuevas conexiones. 

10. Solicite premios de viaje y becas para mejorar sus habilidades para su CV. Incluso si recibe cartas de rechazo, mejorará con el tiempo y, en algún momento, podría recibir este premio que se verá genial en su currículum. Pregunte a otros destinatarios cómo lograron obtener estos premios. Aprenda a redactar subvenciones. Esa es una habilidad importante.

11. Aprenda nuevas técnicas como voluntario en otros laboratorios, que pueden ser útiles para su próximo paso (como un postdoctorado). Estas habilidades también podrían transferirse a la industria científica, que es otra opción de oportunidad laboral a considerar. 

12. Conviértete en asistente de enseñanza (TA) y aprende habilidades de enseñanza para convertirte en un futuro profesor. La enseñanza es una forma de arte y aprender a enseñar es vital hoy en día. Tus futuros estudiantes estarán agradecidos si aplicas técnicas de aprendizaje activo.

13. Ofrezca ser mentor de estudiantes de pregrado y aprender a manejar personas. Se aprende enseñando a otros, y la tutoría de estudiantes universitarios puede ser beneficiosa tanto para ellos como para usted. 

14. A nadie le gustan los sabelotodo, así que no lo seas. No hay nada de malo en ser inteligente y nerd. Pero a veces, ves a los estudiantes graduados compitiendo contra otros estudiantes como si fueran intelectualmente superiores. En realidad, se ven mal y la gente tenderá a mantenerse alejada de ellos. Toma el camino correcto y sé humilde. Métete en tus asuntos. 

15. Retrocedamos una vez más a 'respetar a tus profesores'; tenga en cuenta que son ellos quienes manejan sus calificaciones. Así que sea respetuoso y responsable, como enviarles un correo electrónico para mantener abiertas las puertas de comunicación, hacer su tarea a tiempo y estudiar mucho. Además, a los profesores no les gustan los llorones. Entonces, en lugar de escribir un correo electrónico quejándote de tus problemas, pregúntale cómo puedes mejorar. ¿En qué deberías concentrarte? ¿Cuál es el mejor enfoque de estudio? ¿Qué consejo te podrían dar para triunfar en su clase? No los desafíe ni los compare con otros. Esto es una falta de respeto. Este comportamiento podría marcar la diferencia entre que el profesor te dé ese punto extra para obtener una B en lugar de una C, o pensar que no lo mereces. Recuerda que son humanos y también tienen sentimientos. 

Espero que estos consejos te ayuden a tener éxito en la escuela de posgrado. ¡Buena suerte! ✌ ¡

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